And a final last example. Imagine two young boys fighting on the school yard, rolling over on the ground, yelling at each other, you know how kids are. And then imagine a few bystanders. Some of them will say, “what a horrible fight, we have to separate them, they are going to hurt each other!” and then imagine other bystanders seeing the same fight saying “Are they having a great time! I wish I were young again to be able to do the same thing!” Each bystander has constructed his/her own view of the situation. The severity of the fight is relative and is in the eye of the beholder.